It must be Fate, Karma, Ki... errr Fate

[anysia]

It seems that everytime a certain group or members of a certain group are umm unpleasant, or out and out rude and venomous, towards Meegan and me, something good drops into our lap, or comes our way. Just goes to show you that some old sayings do seem to be true. "What comes around, goes around".

M thinks that Sarah was that offensive and rude due to (egads, going all new age, and psychobabble here) projection. Even though most modern catch phrases tend to set my teeth on edge, I think this one is appropiate. Sarah knows she isn't truthworthy, so it gives her (legend in your own lunch box mentality) the right to treat everyone else that way. Accuse me of misdeeds, due to guilt over her own underhanded, and blatant attempts at coersion.

Oh well, at least we are shut of that food group now. I know I will never see the back up copies of the videos and CDs again.

Comments

Obsessing?

[tribaldancer.livejournal.com]

Hey, it's your journal, and you can write what you want in it. I am here to give love and support...and some honesty.

That group of other women only get as much of your time and energy as you give them. In this journal as of late, you seem to be putting out a lot of negative energy on their behalf. Your posts just seem lately to focus on what appears (from the outside) to be akin to gossipy little girl backstabbing. I know it's not all coming from you, that you are channeling the negativity coming from them, too. And that means double negativity flowing through your heart and mind. Rise above it! Be done with them, be the bigger person, be forgiving and sympathetic when you can, and you will come out smelling like roses in all this.

I just remember when you were writing all these things about a certain other person who you now have ended up getting new perspective on, gaining new respect for and becoming friends with again. I would hate to see you spend all this time and energy burning a bridge in a small dance community which should be built on mutual understanding and respect. Even if they can't seem to give it to you, you give it to them anyway. You will look like the better person for it, your positive energy will return, and your community will be stronger for it.

Feel free to ignore any and all of what I have written. I just want to see you move beyond this. You deserve it.

Re: Obsessing..more like Footnote.

[anysia.livejournal.com]

Nope, not obsessing, over and done with. That was what this line meant.


> Oh well, at least we are shut of that food group now.


I do thank you for your concern. Truly. :)

Peace and good dancing!

*A*